My husband fell in love with my teenage daughter when they met in college eight years ago, and ever since that day he’s wanted to give her the life she deserves, but she turns down every request for attention! My sweetheart has been turned down so many times, it’s becoming obvious to me just how desperate she is to be loved. My advice is straight from my heart: If you are in a situation like this one and you want to get your ex back, do not beg her! Be strong and prove to her that you have earned every bit of your freedom and time, and that you are a responsible adult who can handle the responsibility of a relationship without constant nagging and begging!
This is one thing that most Russian girls hate about Western men. They are always trying to force a girl into doing or feeling something. When my stepson and I first started dating, he would call every day at three in the morning to talk to my mother, and I would try to talk to him in return in an attempt to win him back. He even tried to set up “”dates”” with my friends that would never happen because he thought I would agree to anything he said. This is the type of desperate, controlling behavior you should be running from!
If you’ve had to deal with a Russian mature stepmother and stepson and think you can handle the situation, then go for it. Do not succumb to the emotional pressure from your ex because you’ll only make things worse. You will win your ex back, and you’ll be better off in the long run, but do not lose your composure and sense of self-worth!
