Step Mom helps her injured and frustrated teen stepson to get off Sometimes, when children are emotionally hurt they lash out in anger, but Step Mom helps her severely injured and frustrated teen stepson get off the rails of his own frustration by offering him some valuable “advice” on how to change his behavior. And she does not hesitate to share this valuable advice! The “little voice in your head” that warns Step Mom off in order to protect your child’s self-esteem keeps telling her to back off, but she ignores it each time. Step Mom’s advice is an important one that has helped her stepson to get off the emotional roller coaster that all kids get on at some point in their lives.
After listening to their “little voice” in their head for a while, children usually can start to figure out some of the reasons why they get angry so easily, and start to act more constructively around others. But children can only do this with consistent support and patience. When Step Mom realizes that her child is receptive to her help, and then offers some helpful advice, the kids are learning and changing gradually, and you are seeing a more positive and stable kid who is less angry and more helpful around others.
But as with most things in life, the key is to keep doing it, and keep doing it consistently. Even if your teen is not responding as well to your “advice”, he or she is still getting it and will be very glad for your help. When the Step Mom in your life steps aside and allows her son to change, he will thank you for the support and patience and will enjoy making changes in his life on his own, after you have step-by-step helped him get past his anger, and onto the path towards being more responsible and caring.
