Mom thinks that Stepmom is being mean to her when she tells daddy, “what if daddy finds out?” She knows that if he finds out, he will not love her and they will break up. He does love her, but it just may be that she does not want him to spend all his time with another woman. After all they were not together for very long and in his mind he should know the reason he is with her.
Stepmom knows that if daddy does not tell her the truth, then he will lose his self-respect and he will feel worthless. She knows if he believes in himself, then she can make him do everything right. If he is worthless then she will have a good husband, and all the things she has dreamed of in life. What if daddy find out? Will he still love her?
If you are a Stepmom and you find out that your father is cheating on you. You are probably going to feel very upset and you may even wonder “what if dad finds out?” The first thing you need to do is calm down. Your heart is probably telling you that you should not be talking about this to anyone else except StepMom and your husband. You need to take a deep breath and think about it. Stepmom what if daddy find out?
