Best Friend and Stepmom In Lesbian Tryst “My best friend is my stepmother” is an oxymoron for sure but it is a sad reality that a lot of couples in same sex relationships are coming to realize. Although the term “stepmother” does not conform to the traditional usage of the word, in lesbian relationships the term “best friend” is usually used to describe the female partner. A best friend may sometimes be the woman with whom a female is close and at other times it might be a female who has been a close friend of the woman in question throughout their adolescence or even adulthood.
In this way, it is understandable why some people find the term “best friend” offensive. Because a best friend would never act in a sexual manner with one’s daughter, right? The same can be said of a stepmother as well. And although the two have a close relationship, neither would ever expect the other to do anything other than provide companionship. So it would be inappropriate for your stepmother to expect sexual favors from you. It would be completely inappropriate for your best friend to ask you out on a date if she didn’t already know you well enough to know if she wanted to give you the warm, personal treatment.
In general, the best friends are the women who understood the dynamics of the relationship and provided companionship in return. If you want to get back together with your ex, start being honest with your partner about what you feel. Ask your best friend how you can help your relationship work. Let your best friend to help you feel comfortable enough to be intimate with your ex without expecting anything more than friendship. Believe it or not, there are women out there who are just as attracted to women as you are!
