One of the things that Pinay step mothers always ask is, “How can I make my child more Filipino like me?” It is a very difficult and complicated question, as it would seem to be designed to elicit a response from the mother. However, with the right approach, there is no need to worry as this can be done easily if not all that easy. This article will explore some ways that you can make your Pinay step mother more Filipino, and at the same time, make her embrace the notion of becoming more like her.
First, she should be made to feel like she is a part of the family. This can be achieved by doing something that she enjoys such as taking her to the movies or a concert. Show her that you really appreciate her by showing concern for her welfare. If you don’t want to do this, you can even suggest that she join a soccer or baseball team, something that she is passionate about and where she can socialize with other Filipino kids. Being around other Filipinos, especially young ones, can help her connect to her identity – that of being Filipino.
When she sees other mothers and fathers doting over their kids, she will tend to idolize them. Encourage her to join the Filipino Basketball Association or the Filipino National Team even. She may not be able to basketball but she will surely get inspired by the players and the coaches. Try to join her husband in some online gaming adventures, one that allows you to be a character (a villager or a soldier) and do what you want – play games and shoot at enemies. Doing this may give her a taste of how it is to be a mother and a lover at the same time. Pinay Step Mom Sarap Na Sarap Habang Tinitira Ni Daddy.
