Son has Lusty Feelings for Stepmom

Son has Lusty Feelings for Stepmom.But I didn’t. In fact, I love my wife more than anything and I wanted a long term, stable, loving relationship with her. I did some soul searching and realized that my husband was emotionally attached to the idea of having a sex life and had turned his back on me by laying the blame on me. He said I was a disgusting pig and that I deserved to be spat on and called names because I deserved it.